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advisoryReviewed · Apr 18, 2026 · 1 min read

What Is Sextortion — And What to Do If It Happens to Your Child

By The Rundown  ·  EditorHigh risk

Sextortion is a form of blackmail where someone obtains or claims to have explicit images or videos of a person and threatens to share them unless the victim pays money or sends more content. It is one of the fastest-growing online threats targeting teens, and it disproportionately affects boys ages 14-17. The FBI reported a dramatic increase in sextortion cases targeting minors between 2022 and 2025. The pattern is almost always the same: a stranger poses as a peer (often an attractive teen) on gaming platforms, Instagram, or Snapchat, quickly establishes trust, asks for an explicit image, then immediately reveals their true intent and threatens to share the image with the victim's friends, family, and school unless money or more images are sent. The psychological impact is severe. Multiple teens have died by suicide after being targeted. The most important thing parents can do is talk about this before it happens — and respond without anger or blame if it does.

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What to do

If this has happened to your child: (1) Do NOT pay — payment never stops the threats. (2) Stop all contact with the person threatening them. (3) Take screenshots of all messages as evidence. (4) Report to the FBI at ic3.gov and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children at 1-800-843-5678. (5) Contact the platform where it happened — Instagram, Snapchat, Discord, etc. — and report the account. (6) Remind your child this is not their fault and you are not angry with them. If your child hasn't experienced this: talk about it now, before it happens. Ask "What would you do if someone online asked you for a photo and then threatened you?" Having that conversation once dramatically increases the chance they come to you if it ever happens.

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